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In this episode Mou and Jenoa discuss that it is OKAY to say “NO, but I still think you are hot.” This is when you are attracted to someone, but you know you want to take it slow, yet you might be afraid they will take it the wrong way, feel rejected, think you are a prude, never ask you out again, etc.. When No just means Not Yet.
There are many reasons one may wish to take it slow: including breaking old patterns, trying something new, personal values, extending the life of the relationship, really getting to know someone, setting boundaries etc. Having the conversation before things get hot and heavy is key, but not being afraid to set boundaries in the moment is important as well.

Obsessed With Something Better? 

In this episode Mou and Jenoa discuss how online dating may be contributing to a society of dissatisfaction, obsession with wanting more, bigger & better. The girls remind us that it is okay to date, to have noncommittal or casual sex, to be non monogamous and to not want a committed relationship but it is not okay to be vague, to string someone along while you are waiting for the magic star to come along. Honesty and respect are highlighted. Also discussed are some of the pitfalls of online dating and how to avoid them.

Mou and Jenoa are back with more relationship, sex and dating advice and education. In this episode the girls discuss if and how same sex marriage, and equality for the gay community has shifted the trend away from sexual freedom. Terms and lifestyles such as monogamy, open relationships, non monogamy, polyamory and bisexuality are explored. 

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Moushumi Ghose and Jenoa Harlow are hosts of The Sex Talk, a web-series focusing on sex education, relationship and dating advice, which hopes to raise awareness about healthier attitudes about sex and sexuality. 
Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist, and author based in Los Angeles and New York City. Jenoa Harlow is a lesbian identified actress, based in Los Angeles and San Francisco. 
Stay tuned, stay kinky, sex aware and stay sex positive.

LTR - Long Term Relationships
In our society, success is often based on being in a long term relationship, that lasts a life time. We put a lot of emphasis on building relationships and staying in them, even when the grow sour, or when we stop growing. We feel bad when relationships end. We often feel as though we failed in some way. Mou and Jenoa remind us that it is okay to say goodbye when something is over. It is okay, and in fact it may be good for you to walk away from something that no longer works for you. We can acknowledge what we learned from a relationship. 

The Sex Talk is a weekly webisode that discusses sex, relationships, dating and more. Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist in Los Angeles and New York, Jenoa Harlow is an actress who identifies as a lesbian. They encourage thinking in terms that are good for you, not for the larger society. 

Mou and Jenoa are back with Part 1 of 3 interviews with Kelly Shibari, asian BBW, Big Beautiful Woman who is also the first plus size porn star to be on the cover of Penthouse Forum. Also discussed is Kelly’s stint as the Fleshlight girl, (they used her vulva as a mold not her vagina), body image, and how she got into porn. 

Filmed at the Liberace Penthouse in Los Angeles.


Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist and writer based in Los Angeles and New York City. Jenoa Harlow is a lesbian identified actress, and love coach in Los Angeles and San Francisco.
The Sex Talk is a weekly web series that is dedicated to sex education, dating advice and relationship advice.

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    Mou and Jenoa are back with more relationship, sex and dating advice and education. In this episode the girls discuss NRE- New Relationship Energy, a term commonly used by polyamorous and non monogamous groups to describe the early stages of a relationship where one feels excited, elated, high on “love drugs” aka hormones and endorphins like oxytocin, serotonin and dopamine and may not be in sound mind to make long term decisions. The girls caution against signing long term contracts during this time- marriage, pregnancy, buying a house, and for poly people NRE stands as a reminder to not neglect your prior commitments. 

    Twitter.com/MoushumiAmour
    Twitter.com/JenoaHarlow

    Facebook.com/TheSexTalkSeries
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    SexPositiveNYC.com
    LASexTherapist.com

    Moushumi Ghose and Jenoa Harlow are hosts of The Sex Talk, a web-series focusing on sex education, relationship and dating advice, which hopes to raise awareness about healthier attitudes about sex and sexuality. 
    Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist based in New York City. Jenoa Harlow is an out actress sex enthusiast, based in Los Angeles. 
    Stay Tuned, stay kinky and stay sex positive.

    In this episode Mou and Jenoa discuss what it means to be a serial monogamist, why people fall into the serial monogamy trap aka car jumping, and ways to be more aware and conscious in between relationships.

    Twitter.com/MoushumiAmour

    Twitter.com/JenoaHarlow

    Facebook.com/TheSexTalkSeries

    Tumblr.TheSexTalkSeries.com

    SexPositiveNYC.com

    LASexTherapist.com

    Moushumi Ghose and Jenoa Harlow are hosts of The Sex Talk, a web-series focusing on sex education, relationship and dating advice, which hopes to raise awareness about healthier attitudes about sex and sexuality. 

    Moushumi Ghose is a sex therapist based in New York City. Jenoa Harlow is an out actress sex enthusiast, based in Los Angeles. 

    Stay Tuned, stay kinky and stay sex positive.

    In this episode Mou and Jenoa discuss girl-on-girl sex, lesbian sex and use it as a platform to educate about what women like, and to encourage and remind viewers that there is more to sex than penetration, there is more to sex than vaginal-penile penetration and orgasm and to look at all the other stuff in between, such as oral sex, anal sex, finger fucking, tribadism, dry humping and so on. Sex is all the things you do to arouse and get one another off. The girls encourage getting creative.

    Twitter.com/MoushumiAmour
    Twitter.com/JenoaHarlow

    Facebook.com/TheSexTalkSeries
    Tumblr.TheSexTalkSeries.com

    SexPositiveNYC.com
    LASexTherapist.com

    Moushumi Ghose and Jenoa Harlow are hosts of The Sex Talk, a web-series focusing on sex education, relationship and dating advice, which hopes to raise awareness about healthier attitudes about sex and sexuality. 
    Moushumi Ghose is a psychotherapist who specializes in sex positive therapy sexpositiveNYC.com, and Jenoa Harlow is an out actress and love coach . Based in Los Angeles, San Francisco and NYC.
    Stay Tuned, stay kinky and stay sex positive.

    In this episode Mou and Jenoa discuss the problem of using sex as a weapon, currency or bartering tool. The girls remind us that sex is a form of personal expression, intended to communicate passion, love and intimacy to another person and should not be used as a tool to communicate anger, jealousy or other emotions which should instead be addressed verbally.

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